Monday, October 20, 2008

In Memory of John Hill

In Memory
of
John Thayer Hill
Husband, son, brother, uncle, friend and dearly missed by all
Passed away on October 18, 2008
I have so many good memories of John that I cherish. He was my brother-in-law. He knew what it was like to be married into the Little family. When all the Littles broke out in singing, I would sit there and be thankful that I was not the only one normal and not as obnoxious as the rest of the family. I remember all the family gatherings . . . Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthdays, and the other excuses we used to get together. I remember John making his famous clam dip. I remember John going for second and third helpings . . . the boy could eat. It never failed after any meal John would disappear. In the beginning I used to ask where he was, but now it is so expected . . . he would be in his "office". :) I remember how he would always give everyone a hug before leaving . . . he loved his family. I remember how Jeremy and him would go off and talk about movies or some science fiction stuff that I would never be interested in, but they would drone on and on about it for hours. I remember how he always made a point to talk to my mom and ask how she was doing. I remember how he had "fixed" his glasses by rigging it with a paperclip. I remember when we traveled to Florida via car for Papaw's funeral several years ago and we stopped at a gas station and saw some funky bugs that I had never seen before in my life and he knew the names of them and started explaining stuff about them . . . that took me by surprise. I remember all the beautiful drawings he made and pictures he took. I remember how he loved his wife, Jennifer, and how they would cuddle and kiss . . . it got a little embarrassing at times. This is the way I will remember John.



Life is so very short and time goes by fast.
Cherish each moment with your family and friends.
Truly love one another.

I Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
Thank you for all your prayers and kind words. Please continue to pray for all those close to John.

10 comments:

  1. This is so heartbraking Marianne, i am so sorry for this terrible loss. I will be praying for your family.

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  2. You have such great memories to hold on to. My heart breaks for those who knew John. Our prayers are continually with ya'll and the rest of the people who loved John.

    What a sweet sweet post. Thank you for sharing a bit of him with us.

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  3. My heart breaks for your family and your loss. I will be praying for you guys and all who loved John. What a beautiful post, Marianne, and a wonderful way to honor John.

    Hold tight to those memories. Thank you for sharing a piece of John with us.

    Please let me know if there is anything I can do - anything at all. Colin and I will be praying.

    Hugs,
    Erica

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  4. John was a wonderful husband to Jenn. It is a special thing to marry into the Little clan, and John was such a big part of our family. He will be missed greatly. I always will remember how wonderful he was with our kids-he would play whatever they wanted for as long as they wanted to play, and the kids loved him dearly.

    My heart and prayers are with all of you...

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  5. Marianne, I am so sorry for the loss. I wish we were there to be a comfort. Know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
    Hugs
    Holly

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  6. Marianne and Jeremy,
    We continue to pray for you and your family during this difficult time. Our hearts ache with you and we are available if there is anything else we can do. Please don't hesitate to ask.

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  7. I am so sorry to hear about your loss guys, I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers...take care

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  8. simply beautiful... I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with the Little family as well as the Hill clan.

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  9. Marianne,
    I know that this has to be a tremendously difficult time of grief, sorrow, and loss. Your post, though, shows your faith and hope for the gifts that you have been given. Cling to those and to the Lord who will be your balm of healing in the coming days. Praying for you and your family!!

    With much love and lots of hugs (even from far away!),
    M.

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  10. Praying for you and Jeremy. You wrote a beautiful tribute to your brother-in-law. Praying for those he left behind as well.

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